Epiphany? Eureka? X2?

I think I made kind of a break through in my riding. Dare I say it?
It has slowly dawned on me over the last week or two that I'm not using my left seat bone, weighting my left stirrup when needed, etc. to the degree I should be.
It went like this:
- I was reviewing the shoulder in aid with Joan and realized I had forgotten about weight in the inside stirrup
- I tried it with the weight in the inside stirrup and got a better result
- then I tried leg yield and realized I had - say it isn't so - collapsed my right hip when putting my left leg on
- then I gradually became aware that I was fine with the right hand stirrup weight, but whenever I tried the left it felt awkward and foreign to me - OMG - I hadn't been using the left hip for some time! When did I stop?
Now I've built up tons of incorrect muscle memory. My weight is in my right stirrup almost all the time and I hadn't even realized. Joan and Cheryl couldn't see it, because except when I collapsed my hip you couldn't really see it and I usually wear baggy jackets. This helps explain the difficulty I've had with the left bend and the long time it took me to get it. Poor Rogo - I've been putting my left leg on but also my right seat bone at the same time. He's getting conflicting messages. Stiffness anyone?
Okay, so I got that figured out. I'm kind of embarrassed to blog about it. I should know better and when it started to surface it should have hit me like a ton of bricks, not a slow dawning of realization. Anyway, I figured it out and now I have a long road to recovery :)
My next big revelation, hot on the heels of the first (are they related?) was getting a good trot from Rogo without spurs, a whip or extra work. Anyone who's read my blog a time or two will know I struggle with getting Rogo motivated to trot. Here's how this part went:

- I asked Cheryl awhile ago for longe lessons  to work on fitness and my seat (before I had the left hip epiphany) and she suggested today I start my lesson on the longe with Savanah
- Savanah is PERFECT for longe lessons - push button pony
- Cheryl, hearing about the left hip, worked on that and loosening up my hips in general
- here we are:

 You can see that I've weighted the right in the above picture, even as I'm trying not to!

Lovable wooly mammoth

Not me! Savanah's the wooly mammoth. I just have on many layers :) Here's Cheryl.

Then I hopped off and hopped on Rogo and voila - my stirrups felt way too short. I had to let them down a notch - my legs had stretched into a better position even in that one short session!
Here's a video of Stephan Peters working to get a young horse more forward in trot (perfect or what?). When I found it last night I was looking for examples of trotting - I notice so many people, even at international competitions, banging their horse's sides with their spurs with each trot step. Yuk - even if they don't care about their horse don't they know how ugly that is? Anyway, I digress - with my legs stretched down, they were back further (they tend to get too far forward), and I was ripe to take advantage of this:

I was centered over my horse, my legs were in the correct position to push with some power, I held them on for a second instead of a tenth of a second, as Stephan suggests in the video, and it worked! I must say, when I put my legs on I shocked myself - I knew instantly that it was different, and that he'd respond and he did. I kept it up and we soared effortlessly around the indoor, even getting a lengthening - WOW! I'm still a little giddy with the whole thing :) You know how I've struggled with the trot. I wonder if it was a one shot thing, or are we finally on the right track? I think there may be back and forth time, but I think we're onto something.
I MUST remember this - when things aren't working for me, I get heavier in my aids. They still don't work, so I assume he's dull in that area, that just a shift in approach won't be enough, that it will be a long struggle or trying even harder with what I'm doing. He isn't dull; I'm not doing something right. A change to balanced weight, legs on correctly and he's pushing with that hind end and light in my hands. God I'm lucky to have him. He's so tolerant of me.
I turned him out in the indoor after the ride, as his stall was being cleaned:

Rogo and Doug

Doug was so impressed with both Cheryl and Savanah re the longe lesson that he's going to have one too. I'm going to make it a regular part our my routine, at least for the next month or two. All in all a great day where everything came together. I love it when that happens.


Jeni said…
Don't you just love those "Ah Hah!" moments!
Amy said…
So great you figured out a key to the trot issue. I feel the same with Steady as you do with Rogo. If I could just figure out the right way to ask he will give me what I want. Gotta love those tolerant horses.
Hurricanes12 said…
that's so awesome, even reading this post cleared a lot up for me. i was complaining about oscar's stiffness in the left, but put it down to me being right handed and blocking him in the left rein, but it makes a lot of sense that i'm also weighting the right seat bone too. come to think of it, i'm almost certain i do.

glad to hear you've had a eureka moment so you and rogo will be getting even more awesome :) :)

ps: savanah is definately adorable!
Anonymous said…
Wonderful stuff - I know exactly what you mean. Now you're "allowing" with your seat and legs, and more balanced in your position, everything is possible. So many people are convinced their horses are dull - no horse is dull - when it's them blocking the forward motion.
Anonymous said…
Good for you! You've discovered "feel". Here's to many more aha moments. Cheers
Sounds like you have made breakthroughs! Awesome Carol.

As hard as it may be to swallow sometimes, I know it is for me - (excepting lameness / injury) the problem is always with the rider.

I have the same issue as you but the opposite side - too much weight in the left, light in the right. I couldn't get Val to turn/bend left for months until I realized. Thank goodness they're so tolerant. They're just giving us what we ask for, whether we realize it or not :)
Jan said…
What a wonderful epiphany! Don't feel bad- we all have little things we are doing wrong, and we feel terrible when we discover them. But I really think our horses are pretty forgiving of us. Having said that it happens to all of us, how terrific to learn more about your weighting a stirrup and making some changes and having your dear boy respond so well! Good boy, Rogo! And wonderful for you Carol!
Carol said…
Thanks for all of the feedback. Hurricane 12 - I'm glad someone else has this problem! :)
Cindy said…
Love your posts, they make me think about my riding and make me long for more lessons!