What Makes Horses Addictive?
I think about this all the time, so wanted to write about it, but every sentence, phrase and word I attempt to write sounds like a tired cliche. The questions, about myself and others, come easily:
I don't have any answers to the questions I pose, I just have an awareness of a happiness that would be emptiness without the horses. These phrases come to mind when I think about what horses give me:
- What drives us to take on a responsibility that requires us to go into -15 or colder weather, several times a day, sometimes for weeks on end, to feed horses, make warm mashes, and clean stalls, even when we can't ride because of the cold?
- Why would a sane person, when so fortunate as to retire at 50 (potentially enjoying many years of riding), risk it all and work like a dog to be able to have even more horses and more horse activities?
- Why do young mothers (and fathers) go to the barn night after night - taking lessons, training horses, spending money that's needed for many other things, tired out after a long day's work, and with many other activities clamouring for their attention?
- Why do we (often daily) work to the point of shaking with exhaustion and tie up ALL of our money, for those elusive moments in the saddle when it all clicks?
- Why do we keep riding when we go through periods of such fear that even thinking about riding makes us throw up?
- Why does a physician ride a gorgeous 17 hand five year old, when her doctor has told her if she falls he won't be able to put her back together?
- Why, instead of a relaxing vacation, do we pack up trailers and go to (what can be) the stressful world of a horse show?
- Why do we get back on our horse 3 days after breaking ribs in a fall, barely able to catch a breath because of the pain, when our doctor has told us to wait 4 to 6 weeks?
- Why are we smiling as we shovel shit?
I don't have any answers to the questions I pose, I just have an awareness of a happiness that would be emptiness without the horses. These phrases come to mind when I think about what horses give me:
- A soaring, transcending joy
- A deeply, all encompassing, loving peacefulness
- A communion with another species that I experience as spiritual
Comments
However, the amazingly brave Garrett Macnamara, who surfed a reputedly 100ft wave yesterday, has an inkling... of all sports I think surfing has the most in common with riding.
I do have to pay lots of money to keep my horse though. That adds up to a lot of trips to Hawaii, but I would not trade the two.
Great post!
Personally, I think it's in the genes and we're just born with a love of horses. I consider all of us involved with horses the lucky ones who were born with the horse gene. And I wouldn't change my DNA for anything.
These horses are just the most amazing creatures and then...that they ALLOW us to ride them!!!! Well that is truly a miracle!
Well you really hit the highlights and the lowlights of our heart's call to owning, riding and sharing life with horses.
There is a definite lending of awareness with them telling you things others may never understand or even begin to hear. They offer freedom and peace and a life that soars on the wind. To live without is to not truly live, in my estimation!